A marriage celebrant is the person legally authorised to marry you, and the person who helps shape your ceremony, so it feels like the two of you.
In practical terms, I take care of your legal paperwork, help you decide what goes into your ceremony, write it, guide you with your vows and then stand beside you on the day and deliver it. Along the way I answer a lot of "what happens next?" questions, so you always know where things are up to.
My job is to look after the ceremony side of getting married, so you can enjoy it.
Start with how you feel when you talk to them. You'll be sharing personal stories with this person and trusting them with the moment you actually get married, so feeling comfortable matters as much as anything on a price list.
After that, look at their experience, their reviews and whether their ceremony style matches what you're imagining. A good celebrant listens more than they talk in that first conversation.
There's a list of questions worth asking any celebrant just below.
Yes, and I'd encourage it. A free non obligation meeting which we can catch up in person, by video call or over the phone, whichever is easiest for you.
There's no pressure to decide on the spot. It's a chance to tell me about your plans, ask your questions and see whether we click
I've been a marriage celebrant for 18 years, which adds up to many ceremonies.
What those years have given me is a feel for people. I know when a moment needs a laugh and when it needs a pause, and I've seen enough changeable weather, nervous couples and late arrivals to stay calm when plans shift. I'm also a Justice of the Peace, so careful paperwork is second nature to me.
Yes, with joy. I marry same-sex and opposite-sex couples, and every ceremony I write is built around the people standing in front of me. Your legal vows can use wife, husband or spouse, whichever feels right for you.
I listen before I write. Before a word goes on the page, I want to know how you met, what makes you laugh, who matters to you and how you want the ceremony to feel. Then I write something that sounds like you, the kind of ceremony where guests laugh because they recognise you.
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As soon as you have a date and venue in mind is ideal, especially for Saturdays in spring and autumn, which are the busiest wedding seasons in Southeast Queensland.
Shorter timeframes are fine too. Legally, your paperwork (the Notice of Intended Marriage) needs to be with me at least one month before the wedding, so if you're planning something quick, get in touch and we'll see what's possible.
Most couples secure the venue first, because the date usually depends on venue availability. If you already have your heart set on a celebrant, check their availability before you sign with a venue so you can line the two up.
Send me an enquiry with your date, your venue or location and a little about what you're planning. I'll let you know whether I'm free and we can organise a chat.
Your date is secured with a non-refundable deposit. Once that's paid, the date is yours and we can start planning.
Life happens. You're welcome to one free date change, as long as I'm available on the new date.
Yes, and it's worth considering. Weekdays often mean more choice of dates, quieter venues and sometimes better venue rates. Your ceremony will feel every bit as special on a Wednesday as it does on a Saturday.
Celebrant fees vary depending on how much personalisation and support you'd like. My ceremony options currently start from: (all prices include GST)
• Just the Legals: from $547
• Simply Us: from $757
• Your Story Ceremony: from $1047
• The Signature Ceremony: from $1397
• Reception Emcee: from $650
Each option is a different ceremony experience, rather than the same ceremony with a few extra meetings added. I'll explain exactly what's included before you book, so there are no surprises.
It comes down to the experience you want.
If you'd simply like the legal side taken care of, Just the Legals is for you. If you want something personal and relaxed without your whole story told, Simply Meaningful fits beautifully. If you want your guests to hear your story and recognise the two of you in every part of it, choose Your Story Ceremony. And if you'd love a deeply considered ceremony with meaningful rituals and family woven through it, The Signature Ceremony is where we go deeper.
You don't need to know which one suits you before getting in touch. We can work it out together.
That depends on your ceremony. Just the Legals includes two brief meetings, Simply Us includes a planning meeting and a brief meeting, Your Story and The Signature Ceremony include a story session plus planning time and a brief meeting. We will be in touch by phone or email in between our first meeting and your Wedding.
I'm based in the Moreton Bay Region and marry couples across Brisbane, the Sunshine Coast, the Gold Coast and Southeast Queensland. Travel up to 50 km is included, with a $1.01 per-kilometre fee beyond that.
Planning a wedding further afield? I can marry you anywhere in Australia, with travel and accommodation costs quoted up front.
Many venues ask suppliers for a certificate of currency, and I'm happy to send mine straight to your venue coordinator..
The main document is the Notice of Intended Marriage, often called the NOIM. It tells your celebrant when you plan to marry and must be with me at least one month before your wedding.
You'll also need to show me:
• Evidence of your date and place of birth, such as a birth certificate or passport
• Photo identification, such as a driver's licence or passport
• If either of you has been married before, evidence that the marriage has ended, such as a divorce certificate or death certificate
Shortly before the ceremony, you'll also sign a declaration confirming there's no legal reason you can't marry. I'll guide you through every form, so you're never left guessing.
Your Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) must be with me at least one month before your wedding, and it can be lodged up to 18 months ahead. I usually suggest doing it soon after you book, so it's one less thing on your list.
In limited circumstances, such as serious illness or a posting overseas, a prescribed authority can approve a shorter timeframe. If that might apply to you, talk to me and I'll explain how it works.
In Australia, it can be witnessed by your celebrant, a Justice of the Peace, a lawyer, a police officer or a medical practitioner, among others. As both a celebrant and a JP, I can witness it for you when we meet.
If you're signing overseas, it can be witnessed by an Australian consular officer or a notary public.
You'll need evidence that your previous marriage has ended, usually your divorce certificate, or a death certificate if your former spouse has passed away. Bring the original to our meeting and I'll take care of the rest.
Your divorce must be final before you can remarry, so if it's still in progress, let me know and we'll plan the timing together.
Yes. You need two witnesses aged 18 or over who understand the language of the ceremony. They can be anyone you like: a best friend, a sibling, a parent or a favourite aunt. They'll sign your marriage certificates straight after the ceremony.
They will stand nearby during the ceremony and sign your marriage paperwork straight afterwards. They just need to be 18 or over and there on the day.
I do. I bring everything that needs signing, make sure it's completed correctly and take care of registering your marriage afterwards.
Pretty much, yes. You can marry at a venue, on a beach, in a park, in your backyard or on a friend's farm, on any day of the week and at any time. Some beaches and parks need a booking or permit from the local council, so check early. I'm happy to help you work out what's needed for yours to shape.
Only an authorised marriage celebrant can legally marry you in Australia. If there's someone special, you'd love involved, there are lovely ways to include them. They might share a reading, tell a story about the two of you or help with a ritual, they could read the ceremony except for the while I look after the legal words.
On the day, you'll receive a presentation certificate, a keepsake signed at your ceremony. Afterwards, I register your marriage with the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages in the State you are married in.
The official marriage certificate from the Registry for a fee. Depending on the ceremony I perform for you whether you pay for it or I pay for it. That's the one you'll need for things like changing your name or updating your passport.
It's entirely your choice. You can keep your name, take your partner's, combine them or use different names in different parts of life. If you do change it, your official marriage certificate from the Registry is what most organisations will ask to see.
Yes. You don't need to be an Australian citizen or resident to marry here, and the same Notice of Intended Marriage process applies. Any documents not in English will need an official translation from an accredited translator. Get in touch early and I'll walk you through the timing.
Yes, that's exactly what Just the Legals is for. It's a short, legally complete ceremony with the paperwork taken care of, for couples who want to be married without a full ceremony. It suits couples planning a bigger celebration later, couples eloping, and anyone who'd simply prefer something small and simple.
Almost! The law needs two witnesses aged 18 or over, so you'll need two people beside you. That could be your best friends, your photographer and their assistant, or two people you love. Everything else can be as quiet and private as you like.
Yes. Some couples sign the legal paperwork quietly first in a legal ceremony, then celebrate with everyone later. Just let me know what you have in mind and we'll plan the right ceremony for each day.
Most of the ceremonies I write run for around 20 to 30 minutes, including the signing. A legals-only ceremony can be finished in about 10 minutes, while a ceremony with rituals and family involvement may run a little longer.
The right length is one that holds your guests' attention and still gives the important moments room to breathe.
Yes please! If laughter is a big part of your relationship, it belongs in your ceremony. Some of my favourite moments are when half the guests laugh at a story before the other half catch on.
I'll find the balance, so the humour feels natural and the meaningful moments still land.
Of course. Simple can still be personal. We can keep your ceremony short, include only what matters to you and leave out anything that's only there because tradition says so.
I get to know you. Depending on your package, there might be a couple questionnaire, a dedicated story session, or a relaxed chat about how you met and what you love about each other.
Then I listen for the details: how the first-date unfolded, the private joke, the way one of you always makes the morning coffee. Those small things are what make a ceremony sound like you
Very few. There are some legal words that must be said, and beyond that you can keep the traditions you love and leave out the ones you don't.
Yes. Your Story Ceremony includes one ritual if you'd like one, and The Signature Ceremony includes a ritual designed with you from scratch. Every ritual we include will have a reason for being there.
No. Some couples love a reading, some would rather skip it, and some have a friend read something unexpected like a passage from a favourite book. I'll help you choose if you'd like one.
Absolutely. Children can carry rings, read something or take part in a ritual, and parents or grandparents can share a blessing or a few words. We'll find a role that feels natural for each person.
This is one of the questions I'm asked most, and one I care about deeply. A remembrance moment can be gentle and warm. It might be a few words of acknowledgement, a reserved seat with a photo or flowers, a candle, their favourite song, or something of theirs worn or carried on the day.
Of course. Whether there are two witnesses or 150 guests, your ceremony can still feel personal and meaningful.
Yes, and many couples love it. I can kindly ask guests to put their phones away at the start, so everyone is present and your photographer has a clear view of your faces rather than a sea of screens.
If your venue allows it, yes! Fur babies can walk down the aisle, carry the rings or simply sit nearby with a trusted handler. Just make sure someone is on dog duty so you don't have to be.
Yes. Once your ceremony is written, I'll send you a draft to read through so you can change anything that doesn't feel quite right. No surprises on the day, except the good kind.
No. The only words you must say are the short legal vows, and I'll guide you through those. Beyond that, you can write personal vows, adapt vows I give you, or keep things simple.
Plenty of couples who tell me “We’re not good with words" end up writing something beautiful with a little help.
Yes, and I love this part. I'll give you prompts, examples and a simple structure to start from, so you're never staring at a blank page. If you'd like, send me your draft and I'll help you polish it while keeping it in your own words.
Around one to two minutes spoken aloud is plenty. Short, clear sentences often land better than long ones.
You're in good company. You can repeat your vows after me in short phrases, so there's nothing to remember and no pressure to perform, or you could read them from a Vow Card. Plenty of couples who were dreading it tell me afterwards it was their favourite part.
Absolutely. A little humour followed by something heartfelt is often the moment guests remember most.
Not at all. Most couples read from vow cards, and some prefer to repeat after me in short phrases. With all the emotion of the day, having the words in front of you is a lovely relief. Printed vow cards are included in Your Story Ceremony and The Signature Ceremony.
Yes. Lots of couples love hearing each other's vows for the first time at the ceremony. Send them to me separately and I'll keep them safely under wraps until the moment you say them.
It depends on your ceremony. If you have a wedding party, children involved, a ritual or a detailed entrance, a rehearsal helps everyone feel confident. For simpler ceremonies, a clear run-through on the day is usually enough.
A rehearsal or comprehensive final run-through is included in Your Story Ceremony, and a full onsite rehearsal is part of The Signature Ceremony.
I arrive well before your ceremony, set up, check in with your venue coordinator, photographer and musicians, and make sure your witnesses and the rings are ready to go.
Then I marry you, guide you through the signing and introduce you to your guests as a married couple. All you need to do is arrive and enjoy it.
I arrive at least 20 minutes before your ceremony starts, so I can set up, check in with your venue and photographer, and make sure everything's ready before you walk in.
Yes. A professional PA system is included in all the ceremonies except “Just the Legal Ceremony”, so every guest can hear every word, including your vows. It can also support your ceremony music if you don't have a musician.
We'll talk through a wet weather plan with your venue well before the day, so if the sky has other ideas, everyone already knows where to go.
Running a little behind? It happens more often than you’d think, so take a breath. Send a quick message to your coordinator or a trusted friend so I know, and I’ll keep your guests relaxed and chatting until you arrive. A few minutes late is one of the most normal things on a wedding day... honestly, nobody remembers it afterwards.
If it looks like being a much longer delay, we’ll work out the best option together. In some cases the ceremony may need to be rescheduled, and that can attract extra fees.
That's what tissues and pauses are for. Happy tears are part of it, and I'll give you all the time you need.
It happens more often than you'd think, and it's always fixable. I've seen a few creative solutions over the years!
Yes. I can marry you and then host your reception, which gives your whole day one calm, familiar voice from the first welcome to the last dance. By the time the reception begins, I already know your story, your families and your plans.
A good MC keeps your reception flowing so you can enjoy it. As your MC, I'll help plan your run sheet and timings, work with your venue, DJ or band and photographer, introduce your wedding party and speeches, and keep things on track without anything feeling rushed.
Behind the scenes, I handle timing changes and fill any gaps, so you never have to check the clock.
Yes! We’ll plan your run sheet together before the day, from your entrance and speeches to your first dance, and I’ll share it with your venue, DJ and photographer so everyone’s on the same page. On the night, I keep an eye on the clock and handle any changes, so you can simply enjoy your reception.
Yes. You're welcome to book me as your emcee on its own.
You can, and some friends are brilliant at it. Keep in mind they'll spend the night watching the clock and chasing speakers instead of celebrating with you. With a professional MC, everyone you love gets to enjoy the night, including your friend.
Yes. I also MC community and other events. Get in touch and tell me what you're planning.
Reception MC services start from $650.
A vow renewal centres on making your promises again. An anniversary celebration centres on your story and the years you've shared, with no vows needed unless you'd like to say a few words to each other.
No. You're already married, so there's no legal paperwork. That means you're free to create the ceremony exactly how you'd like it.
As long or as short as you like. Some couples renew at one year, some at fifty. If it matters to you, that's reason enough.
Yes. You're welcome to book me as your emcee on its own.
Yes. Many couples who married overseas love having a celebration at home with everyone who couldn't be there the first time.
Not at all. Any celebrant can conduct your vow renewal. If you still have your original ceremony, bring it along and we can weave parts of it in.
No. You can echo your original vows, add to them or start fresh, and I'll help with whichever feels right.
Yes, and it's often the wonderful part of the day. They can walk you down the aisle, share a reading, say a few words or take part in a ritual.
Absolutely, if it still makes you smile, wear it! Or choose something completely new. There are no rules here
Yes, and it’s such a lovely way to do it! Your family might think they’re coming to a simple lunch or dinner, then discover they’re part of a celebration of your story together. We’ll plan everything quietly between us, so the only people in on the secret are the two of you and me.
Any one that feels important to you. Milestones like 25, 40, 50 and 60 years are popular, but ten years that deserved a proper party counts too.
Yes, and it works well that way. I create and deliver the ceremony itself, and it can sit right at the heart of your party, lunch or dinner.
Anywhere that feels right... your backyard, a park, the beach, a restaurant or the place you were first married.
Yes. Many residences are happy to host a small celebration with a little notice. We'll check what the facility needs, keep things comfortable for everyone and make sure your guest of honour can hear every word.
Most run around 20 to 30 minutes, depending on what you'd like to include.
Vow renewals and anniversary celebrations both start from $605 (incl. GST).
Because there's no legal paperwork, a few weeks' notice can work. For popular dates, weekends and surprise celebrations, the earlier the better.
A naming ceremony is a personal celebration that welcomes your child into your family and the wider circle of people who love them.
It might include the story behind your child's name, promises from you as parents, a few words from grandparents or special adults, readings, music and a meaningful ritual. Most of all, it's a chance to gather your people and say, in your own way, "This is our child, and this is the story we're beginning together."
A naming ceremony is a civil celebration, so there's no religious element unless you'd like one. Many families choose it because they want to celebrate their child without a formal religious service.
If spiritual, cultural or family traditions matter to you, they're welcome too. Your ceremony can be completely non-religious, or it can reflect the beliefs and values your family holds.
No. A naming ceremony is a heartfelt celebration rather than a legal document. Registering your child's birth with the Queensland Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages is a separate step, and your naming ceremony sits alongside it as the part that celebrates who your child is and the people around them.
No. It celebrates the name your child already has. If you're changing a name, that's done through the Registry, and a naming ceremony can be a lovely way to mark it afterwards.
Whenever feels right for your family. Some families hold one when their baby is a few months old, others wait until their child is walking and talking, and some mark a later milestone such as an adoption or a new family coming together.
Yes. Naming ceremonies suit babies, toddlers and older children alike. An older child can even help plan their own ceremony, which makes it extra special for them. It's also a lovely way to welcome an adopted or foster child, or to celebrate a child joining a blended family.
Of course. Twins, siblings close in age, or an older child who never had a ceremony can all be celebrated together. I'll make sure each child has their own moment, their own name story and their own certificate, so nobody feels like an afterthought.
Yes, and that's exactly what it should do. Families come together in so many ways. You might be a single parent, two mums or two dads, an adoptive, foster or kinship family, a blended family, or grandparents raising grandchildren. Whatever your family looks like, your ceremony will be written around the people who love your child. We'll choose wording that fits your family exactly as it is.
Every ceremony is different, and we'll choose the parts that feel right for you. A ceremony might include:
• A warm welcome to your guests
• Your child's name and the story behind it
• A little of your child's story so far
• Your hopes for their life
• Promises from you as parents
• Promises from grandparents, godparents or supporting adults
• A reading, poem or music
• A family ritual
• A role for brothers and sisters
• Signing and presenting the naming certificate
• Closing words and a celebration of your family
You don't need to include everything. Some of the loveliest ceremonies are the simplest.
If your child is old enough, I'd love to chat with them too. A toddler might show me their favourite toy or tell me their dog's name. An older child can share what they love, what makes them laugh and even help choose parts of their ceremony. I keep it relaxed and at their pace, so it feels like a friendly chat rather than an interview.
Then I bring all those details together into a ceremony your guests will recognise instantly as yours, the kind where a grandparent smiles because they know exactly which story is coming next.
Yes, and it's often a favourite part of the ceremony. You might like to share:
• Why you chose the name
• Whether it honours someone special
• How you settled on the spelling
• The story behind a middle name
• Any cultural, family or spiritual connection
Even "we just loved how it sounded" can become a sweet moment in the right hands.
Yes, and it can be one of the most meaningful moments of the day. We might share a little about who they were and why their name lives on, light a candle, or place a photo nearby.
Yes. Many families choose godparents, guardians, mentors or close friends to stand alongside them and make promises to support your child as they grow.
The role doesn't need to be religious. We'll find a title that feels right for your family, whether that's godparent, guide parent, mentor or something entirely your own.
The promises made at a naming ceremony are heartfelt and important, but they don't carry legal weight. Naming someone as a godparent or guide parent doesn't make them your child's legal guardian.
If you'd like a particular person to care for your child should anything happen to you, that's arranged through a will, and a solicitor can help you set it up. Many families find the naming ceremony is a gentle prompt to get that done.
Yes, if you'd like one. Some lovely options include:
• Lighting a candle
• Planting a tree that grows alongside your child
• Creating a time capsule to open on a future birthday
• A family blessing or promise
• Guests sharing wishes for your child
• A ritual designed especially for your family
Simple rituals are often the most meaningful. What matters is that it connects to your family.
Yes, and lots of families do. A naming ceremony fits beautifully into a first birthday party, a family reunion or even your own wedding day, where your child can be welcomed as part of the family you're creating. It means everyone who matters is already in one place.
Your home, backyard, a park, a function room or a family property. Anywhere your people can gather.
Most naming ceremonies run for around 20 to 30 minutes, depending on what you include. We'll make sure there's enough time for the special moments without asking too much of little attention spans, including your child's.
Work around your child's routine. Many families choose a time just after a nap and a feed, when their little one is most settled, and mid-morning often works well for babies and toddlers. For outdoor ceremonies in Queensland, avoiding the heat of the middle of the day helps everyone stay comfortable.
That's perfectly fine. It's their ceremony, after all. Babies might need a feed, a cuddle, a nappy change or a little break, and we'll simply pause and carry on when they're ready.
I'm relaxed about letting the ceremony unfold naturally, so there's never any need to feel embarrassed.
Yes. Your ceremony includes a personalised naming certificate as a keepsake of the day. It's a commemorative certificate, so can sits alongside your child's official birth certificate.
My naming ceremony is $550. That includes your planning meeting, a personalised ceremony written around your child and family, the story behind their name, guidance with readings and music, family involvement, one personalised ritual if you'd like one, a draft to review, delivery on the day, a PA where needed, a personalised naming certificate, a keepsake copy of the ceremony and local travel.
Your naming ceremony includes:
• An initial planning meeting
• A personalised ceremony written around your child and family
• The story or meaning behind your child's name
• Guidance with readings and music
• Involvement of siblings and grandparents
• Involvement of godparents, mentors or supporting adults
• Parent promises
• One personalised ritual, if you'd like one
• A ceremony draft to review
• Phone and email support while we plan
• Delivery of your ceremony on the day
• A PA system where required
• A personalised naming certificate
• Certificates for supporting adults where appropriate
• A keepsake copy of the ceremony
• Local travel
Get in touch as soon as you have a rough date and location in mind. It gives us time to plan thoughtfully and gives family members, especially those travelling, time to organise themselves. If your plans are coming together quickly, still reach out and we'll see what's possible.
Send me your preferred date, location and a little about your family and the celebration you're imagining. I'll let you know whether I'm free and we can organise a chat.
Yes. I'm based in the Moreton Bay Region and hold naming ceremonies across Brisbane, the Sunshine Coast, the Gold Coast and Southeast Queensland. Travel up to 50 km is included, with a $1.01 per-kilometre fee beyond that, which I'll explain before you book.
With 18 years as a celebrant, I know how to create a ceremony that feels natural, warm and relaxed for families, even when the guest of honour has their own ideas about the schedule.
I'll listen to your family's story, help you decide what matters most and look after the details, so you can enjoy welcoming your child with the people you love. My background in life celebrations means I understand how much these moments matter, and how they become part of your family's story for years to come.
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